UHNW & HNW Women: Ask The Question & Trust In The Answer

UHNW & HNW Women
Ask The Question & Trust In The Answer



Do You Know Who You Are
&
What You Are Doing To Yourself?

Join today’s conversation on why you as an Ultra High Net Worth (UHNW) woman, a High Net Worth (HNW) woman, or, an affluent professional woman should look carefully at your situation and take the most appropriate risks that you feel you would be able to handle. Time is of the essence for you. You want to achieve as much as possible as the years fly by. You are getting older and you feel there is still so much that you want to do before you die.

Mingled into this are the expectations of others. The other(s) who is (are) YOUR life partner (husband, fiance, boyfriend, gentleman friend, wife, girlfriend, lover, lady friend). The others who are YOUR family (near and distant, bloodline and step family). The others who are YOUR ‘friends’. The others who are YOUR colleagues. The others who are stakeholders in YOUR life.

You are an UHNW, HNW or affluent professional woman and you have experienced a myriad of life trials and tribulations throughout your years. You have been through levels of hate, stress, anger, self loathing, emotional upheaval, tears and tantrums. You have also danced along your life journey in the giddiness of joy, happiness, affection, glee, love, elation and adoration.

So, you are what you are and that is an affluent woman. You are shy or an introvert. Perhaps with low level autism. You live in an affluent home. You live an affluent lifestyle. You have weight fluctuations. You have dietary impulses. You have relationship quandaries. Yet right now; today, you still ask the question. You ask the question and you are not sure if you really want the answer. A part of you does want an explanation, but the ego of YOU keeps telling you that you can cope without an answer. Just keep doing what you are doing (“keep on keeping on”), it is a waste of money and an indulgence to spend more money on a solution that can help you with your well-being, especially if you are not doing so from a private beach or a castle, or somewhere that you feel safe and secured  Your ego comes up with several excuses to keep it in a style that it has become used to.

Your ego continues to tell you “If you need someone go cheap. Save your coins for a rainy day, or do some online shopping, retail therapy. Send an email to someone in your address book to have a little chat with, that will do just as good in solving your well-being issues, your stress issues, your anger issues, your life issues.”

That voice in your head saying to you “I know what you need, you need the immediate comfort of food, drinks, films, music, scents and textures.”

So off you go and stroke your fur coats, your fur bedding, the fur throw over your sofa.

Off you go and stare at your dressing table with an array of parfums, picking up each bottle and smelling each scent.

Off you go to your kitchen and open your refridgerator, stare at the contents and wonder whether it is too early or too late to open a bottle of sparkling wine.

Then there is the cupboard with an array of foods from around the world, your little delicatessen. Not forgetting the high volume of snacks. What to choose?!

The radio is on and it is not feeding your soul with the bad news from the world. So what is on the television? More doom and gloom?

$$$ Over the Internet you have scrolled through focus groups, self help groups, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Reddit, et al seeing that there are too many people spouting religion as a source for mindset change. Bible bashers. *like Jesus on Meth Amphetamine, not for you*

$$$ Too many people shouting, or speaking non coherently. *like a drunken new world dictator without the Midas Touch and wearing the Emperor's new clothes, not for you*

$$$ Too many people telling and not listening. *like an authoritarian, populist, corruptible, crack head librarian, not for you*

$$$ Too many people forcing their opinion. *like a mad scientist who has absorbed too many experimental fumes from test tubes and has begun to grow extra fingers and toes, not for you*

$$$ Too many people wanting followers. *like the pied piper on speed, not for you*

$$$ Too many people wanting ‘hits’ and ‘likes’. *like the wanna be’s who take on plastic surgery to look like popular plastic dolls and want your attention on their surgery scars, not for you*

$$$ Too many people not understanding the specifics of you and your professional, social and life issues, yet they are pushing their wares, their services, their products on to you. *like the desperados and opportunists sitting in their sweaty, stained, pants scanning for pyramid schemes over the WWW and wanting your clicks, not for you*

$$$ Too many people who look like you but are not like you. *like the pompous person who demands your; including your contacts, webinar time & attention presence, then proceeds to tell you how stupid and ungrateful you are because you have asked a question (REALLY!!!), not for you*

$$$ Too many people with small minds. *like the wig wearing, hair piece sporting, balding, tribal zombie nation that just will not go away and stay down (to be avoided at all costs!), not for you*

$$$ Too many people who believe in their own shit and have their ego shoved up their arse calling themselves leaders, executives and gurus to newly created cults. *like a 21st century planet of the apes emulator (WTF), not for you*

Where is your mind? What are you feeling? Where is your creative instinct/spirit? Where is your mojo? YOUR MOMENTUM FOR CHANGE.

So today, ask the question.

This conversation is about YOU. Only YOU. Wholly YOU. Just for YOU. Your ebbs and flows. Purely for the next 10 minutes take my hand and open your mind on this short journey so that you can begin to see aspects of what you are doing to yourself. Leave your ego behind yourself, your ego can take a back seat and follow YOU during these 10 minutes.

You are staring at me in silence.

*This is YOUR ego default stance*

Then slowly you state “I do not know what you want me to say.” More silence. Then you state “My life is a ______________ (you fill in the gaps) and I _______________________________________________ but I want _________________________________________ .”

WHAT IS THE ONE THING THAT YOU ARE EXPERIENCING THE MOST RIGHT NOW THAT COULD DO WITH A LITTLE REDRESS?  SOMETHING THAT HAS RANKLED YOU DUE TO A SPECIFIC SITUATION?

With reference to your professional career / business / entrepreneurial start up.

Are you still using your maiden name or your married name for your business? Are you thinking as the single you, or, are you thinking as the married you?

Are you still married and working? How are you feeling in this marriage if you are the bread winner?

Or are you divorced and working? How are you managing being divorced and continuing a professional status?

Are you the lover of a married person? How is this affecting who you are in your day to day life, especially in your business career?

What advantage is there for you in you still using your maiden name for work?

What benefit is there for you in using your married name for your business?

Is this name a brand that you own, or are there other stakeholders that you have to consider?

With reference to your private life.

Are you still looking in the mirror with the self belief that you are still not good enough for the affection and/or attention of your partner because s/he is always in the company of people that they find attractive, charming and fun to be around? That no matter how much you exercise, eat well or change whom you intrinsically are, that you are always having to compete with other women?

Did you want children in your life?

Were having children a part of your family agreement with your partner? (This means having children through sex, having children through an adoption process, having step children, having your eggs frozen to be used at a later date, having a surrogate mother, any other agreement for having children.)

Were having pets a part of your family set up agreement with your partner?

Did one person in the relationship want them more than the other?

How did this change the dynamics of your private life?

With reference to your social life.

How has seeing a family member that you fell out with affected you, after several years with no contact? This person is all but a stranger, except in name and bloodline.

Due to the animosity of the feelings from that experience of being left behind by someone (mother, father, sister, brother, aunt, uncle, cousin) when you were a child, do you still consider that person dead even though they are alive? Do you continue to have negligible communication. If you communicate only at rare social events how are you coping with this?

Do you tend to always avoid such social events because of this individual?

Socially. Would it matter to you if the person that you were considering marrying had less income than you. Or is it important that this person is at a similar or higher income bracket to you?

What would be your threshold in order for you to consider a prenuptial agreement? What are other people that you socialise with suggesting to you?

Would the blackmail of a prenuptial agreement sway your decision in going ahead with marrying this particular individual? On what grounds would you find this agreement reasonable or just to benefit your social status?

What boundaries do you have in working with an ex / old flame when you take your business to the next stage? Knowing that you work well together, or at least have a good understanding with each other. That you have worked well in the past and, you feel that for the future, the benefit of business comes first above all else. After all, the business pays the bills.

"I am RICH and I am better than YOU. I do not need answers. I am the answer."

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You are an UHNW, HNW or affluent professional woman and you have experienced a myriad of life trials and tribulations throughout your years. You have been through levels of hate, stress, anger, self loathing, emotional upheaval, tears and tantrums. You have also danced along your life journey in the giddiness of joy, happiness, affection, glee, love, elation and adoration.

Ultra High Net Worth, High Net Worth & Affluent Professional Women to receive the answer YOU have to "Ask The Question & Trust In The Answer."