UHNW and HNW Women:Trusting When Your Past Catches Up With You

UHNW and HNW Women
Trusting Yourself To Handle Situations Well When Your Past Catches Up With You...

is a position that needs thought. Considered thought. How are you going to manage the actions and the words of people who are pressurising you for an answer? An answer to something you did in the past that is now impacting upon your reality on your day to day professional, personal and social standing?

You are an affluent woman. You live in opulence. You are successful in your business. You started from a position of lack, wanting, needing and desiring in life. You were frequently seeking a connection to affluence in the places that you visited and the people that passed you by. The feelings from your failed business ideas are not allowed to enable you to forget whenever you see someone else succeed where you failed. The emotions from your failed relationships are inextricably linked and amplified to you when triggered by something seemingly small and inconsequential. You lived a part of your life doing what you had to do in order to survive. You used some people and you were used by others. You did what you had to do in order to navigate within the labyrinth of life. To deal with the networks of people who were snakes. To deal with the networks of people who were barriers to you getting ahead. You had to deal with the insults and the belittling comments. Now, through sheer hard time and effort, you have worked your way up to success, opulence and affluence. FINALLY! Yet as a High Net Worth Individual woman you are beginning to have the ego + the anxiety + the nightmares of all your success come tumbling down. Something has triggered this. Was it a name or an aspect from your past? Was it a salacious website or group that you used to connect with? Was it a person that you saw on the street, in the shops, on the Internet, in the press? You have worked so hard and sacrificed much to reach where you are now. You have paid your dues and more.

Now you are running. Running from what? Something real? Something in your mind? You are many years older and you have finally arrived at a salubrious lifestyle. You have reached that destination. Yet something has triggered a feeling of breakdown. You are trying very carefully not to show it. Your ego is telling you to pull yourself together. To hold it together. Yet at the same time you are screaming for help internally. You feel as though you are slowly falling. The people that you want to connect with, you fear them. You fear them on various levels. You fear them in case your past catches up with you and they think less of you. That you have fallen in their esteem. That they do not initiate a sincere relationship with you.

You are an affluent woman. You are a High Net Worth Individual woman. You are an Ultra High Net Worth Individual woman. Yet you still ask the question. The next part to this is the hanging on through the ego + the anxiety + the nightmares of all your success. Then there is the need for support and mindset strength together with the answers. The answers that you seek for yourself. The answers that others seek from you. Do these people not realise that you do not hold all the answers, all the solutions to their life.

Everyone wants a piece of you. People are following you. Wanting to be you. Creating an alias to live and present themselves as you. Yet they would not be able to cope with the pressures that your lifestyle carries with it. Regardless of your success and perceived lifestyle you still suffer in your way with the demons in your mind, as each unyielding aspect of your past continues to catch up with you and play like a broken record. So how can you convert those voices, scenes and feelings into balance, peace and tranquility and eventually dissipate from your psyche? What is the solution for you?

You tell yourself how fortunate and contented you are in your luxury. That it suits you. That you worked incredibly hard for it (Yes, you did. You certainly did.) That you will fight to maintain it (Yes you will. You will defend yourself to maintain as much as possible. Poverty does not suit you.) That you look at yourself with different eyes (Yes you do. There are days that you love being you; the real true you. Then there are days when you beat yourself up over remnants of the past that cannot be scrubbed from your memory; they act as hauntings within your mind.) That you comprehend yourself differently in order for some sort of sanity.

The one thing that you understand is that you have to be careful, as fate may turn against you and determine that you have to journey the losing streak. Fate has a helping hand if you hand it your walking away shoes. So be sure that you can take the risk of living with a wounding past. Especially a wounding past that triggers your mental health imbalance. A past that catches up with you where you find yourself not being able to handle the situation well. Mismanaging actions and words and finding aspects of your life slipping away.

So, how is it going for you trusting yourself to manage your actions and words when your past catches up with you?

How are you enabling YOUR upper hand when your past catches up with you?